Diana's True Love, by Her Closest Friend

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LadyAiello

Quote from: PRINCESSINWAITING on November 03, 2013, 12:26:41 PM
Diana didn't even try to put effort in the relationship she always cried created drama and wanted to play victim no wonder he cheated

If you have done any research, you would know she stated that she had done many things to make him feel happy, comfortable, loved, sexy, desired, cared for, etc.

I implore you to read some more before you state someone has reason to cheat on their spouse.

Eri

@ sophiechloe Why would she have done such thing given that she was busy doing Hewitt?  :wink:

sandy

Hewitt came into the picture in 1986 years after the infamous cufflinks on honeymoon episode.  Biographers maintain that Charles was relieved that Diana was involved with Hewitt, it took the heat off his being with Camllla.

amabel

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Quote from: LadyAiello on November 03, 2013, 06:13:26 PM
Quote from: PRINCESSINWAITING on November 03, 2013, 12:26:41 PM
Diana didn't even try to put effort in the relationship she always cried created drama and wanted to play victim no wonder he cheated

If you have done any research, you would know she stated that she had done many things to make him feel happy, comfortable, loved, sexy, desired, cared for, etc.

I implore you to read some more before you state someone has reason to cheat on their spouse.
She may have tried, but she also abruptly gave up "liking" the country life at balmorla, and no doubt mystified Charles because she now seemed to hate the pursuits that she'd apparnelty enjoyed watching him doing when they were dating.  She did her best, butt it wasn't a very successful enterprise, because it was against her inclinations.  She did not really Care for shooting or hunting or country life, she had just fooled herself into thinking she did, during their courtship. And he tried to make her feel happy, by staying home with her and the children, going to sunny climates for holidays.  But that was against his inclinations.  The marriage failed because they did not have much in common.

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Quote from: Limabeany on November 02, 2013, 11:22:23 PM
He never left Camilla, so how could she have sent him back to the woman he was always with?????????????????? :wellduh:

How did he "never leave" Camilla?  He was living iwht Diana.  He was working or spending time with her and the children in the first few years. Diana never said that he was with Camilla from the very beginning of tehir marriage.  She said IIRC in Morton that she believed he had returned to Cam during her pregnancy with Harry, but she ALSO said that the last few weeks of that pregnancy were the happiest and closest that she had ever been with Charles.  So that is Rather contradictory.   If he was back with Cam how coem he was so close to her? 

sandy

Diana said after Harry was born she believed he "went back to his lady." During the pregnancy she said they were close.

Camilla was in contact with Charles and vice versa from the beginning of the marriage. Barry said phone calls were placed by Charles to Camilla during the honeymoon. They also met up at the hunts. If he still preferred Camilla to Diana certainly Diana would have sensed this from the get-go.

The marriage failed because of Charles preferring the other woman and not giving her completely up.

Again, during the honeymoon at Balmoral Diana was pregnant with WIlliam and felt sick. How could she frolic around Balmoral when she was not feeling well. And Charles knew she didn't hunt or ride--she in fact told this to Camilla during their lunch after the engagement. Everybody knew Diana fell from the horse and didn't ride or hunt.

Queen Camilla

Quote from: sandy on November 04, 2013, 04:47:18 PM
Again, during the honeymoon at Balmoral Diana was pregnant with WIlliam and felt sick. How could she frolic around Balmoral when she was not feeling well. And Charles knew she didn't hunt or ride--she in fact told this to Camilla during their lunch after the engagement. Everybody knew Diana fell from the horse and didn't ride or hunt.

Balmoral honeymoon was in August and September.  William is said to have been born early so Diana would have conceived in early to mid October. 

sandy

Diana told Morton she was sick with bulimia and morning sickness while at Balmoral. Diana conceived William earlier than October according to various accounts. Doctors gave her valium which she had to stop taking when she discovered she was pregnant.  She said she was "sick as a parrot" at Balmoral. So in any case she was not up to par at Balmoral.

Queen Camilla

Not everything Diana told Andrew Morton was true. 


sandy

I don't think she'd lie about morning sickness. She said doctors were sent. Charles never refuted this and indeed mentioned the morning sickness in his authorized biography and how she was not feeling well.  So you'd have to question if Charles told the truth too in this case.

Eri

To take this back on topic ... Di never got to have " the love of her life" she died too young but I think The Prince was the closest she got to that ...

sandy

I think she'd always have loved him as the father of her children and he was her first love. But I think he stopped being the love of her life when they became estranged and she never quite trusted him completely even after the divorce.